What is social phobia?
Being nervous when dealing with other people or when one
anticipates that is going to do something in front of others
is very common. Most people might have experienced physical
symptoms of anxiety (such as blushing, trembling or sweating)
when facing important situations such as giving an oral
presentation in public, having a job interview, meeting
the in-laws-to-be, or having their first date. It is very
likely to foster doubts about how the others would value
them, and disturbing thoughts about spoiling one's self-presentation.
And it also might be that the person wishes to be out of
the situation the sooner the better. Although social anxiety
is very common, the experience of the person having social
phobia is much more severe, disturbing, and disabling.
Social phobia is defined by a marked fear (and, sometimes,
avoidance) of situations where the person is afraid of acting
in an embarrassing, ridiculous, or humiliating way in form
of others, or that those others notice his/her anxiety.
Social situations vary broadly, but are very common fears
of initiating and maintaining conversations, going to parties
or social gatherings, talking to people in authority, participating
in classes or meetings, talking, writing, eating or drinking
in public, etc. When the person with social phobia is in
one of those situations he/she fears and believes that the
others will notice their anxiety and will label him/her
as weak, insecure, weird or foolish. Actually, he/she may
avoid to public speaking because of fear of "running
out of words"; or may refuse to eat or drink in front
of others so they cannot see "my trembling hands";
or may refuse to be introduce in a meeting because "I'll
turn cherry red". Anxiety symptoms are of diverse nature:
palpitations, sweating, trembling, muscular tightness, blushing,
dry mouth, mental blank, etc. Their intensity make the person
believe that the others are also noticing his/her anxiety,
which in turn becomes another source of worry and distress.
Besides the distress that is affecting the person, fear
and/or avoidance is frequently another source of disturbance
for one or several areas. The person may refuse invitations
to go to parties because of the fear of not knowing what
to say or he/she may remain withdraw because of the belief
that is going to make a fool of him/herself. It could be
that he/she does not promote at work because a promotion
implies dealing with people or giving oral presentations.
The person can obtain just average scores at school because
of being unable to do an oral exam.
Several studies point out that 3% to 13% of the general
population have social phobia. These figures might be even
higher because people do not seek treatment for it, just
because they believe that that is the way they are, and
that there is nothing to do apart from resigning to live
with the problem and trying to adapt oneself to its limitations.
This is absolutely false: there are effective treatment
programs to help people to overcome their social phobia.
It might be that while reading this site you identify yourself
with the descriptions of the problem provided above. The
Test questions inquire about the presence of some of its
features. Although they do not substitute the assessment
process necessary to establish a clinical diagnosis, they
might be considered as a first approach and a preliminary
screening of the problem.
If you also experience a significant distress, or any area
of your daily life (leisure, work, school, family, etc.)
has been affected by this problem, you might be suffering
from social phobia. However, remember: this is just a first
approach to the assessment process needed before starting
any treatment. If you think you might have this problem,
seek professional advice so you can decide whether you want
or not to receive treatment.